Usually the girls getting married, they seek to live separate from the in-laws. They don't tolerate the control of the in-laws in their movements. Her parents cannot come often to visit her if she is in her in-law's home. If she is in a separate house, she can bring her mother to help her, without the objection of mother in-law or husband. This way there will be too much interference in the affair in the life of the couples. It will be nuisance to the husband. It may lead to much friction between the couple.
Secondly, the husband of the girl has to live with the parents and serve them as long as they live. They will be hungry for the love of their sons. For the sake of his wife if the abandons the care and company of the parents, they will be let down and depressed.
There is a saying:
"Your daughter is your daughter as long as you live. Your son is your son till gets married"
Suppose, the couple want to live separately away from parents, if there is any sickness in the house, who will come to help them. If the wife or the husband is admitted into hospital, who will be in the house to look after children. If husband and wife fight among themselves, who will be there to check them or control them.
Hence it is better that the couple stay with the parents and avail the freely available experience and advice and their guidance in their lives.
The couples should not ignore the advice of the parents, even though it may look trivail. For instance, the father asks the son to take the umbrella, when he goes out. Son takes it as unnecessary. But, on the way, it rains and he gets drenched by rain and return's home. Next day he falls ill. The parents are the store house of knowledge and blessings. If the sons don't make use of it, they are unfortunate.
The other side of the picture: The husband has the responsibility of providing the protection to his wife and give her proper food and comfortable and affordable accommodation. if there are any hostile elements present in the presents house, she has the right to seek a separate peaceful accommodation for her. He cannot deny her. Even if the wife is quarrelsome in nature and the parents are of peaceful nature, still to keep peace in the family, it is better for the husband to keep her in separate house. But the son has to visit his parents daily and give them company with more love constantly. If possible he may take wife and children to the parents house. In case the wife is able to get the change of residence now she has to enter the heart of the husband through love and make her residence, there in husbands house from her parents house.